our purpose

To Champion Cross-Cultural Marriage Everywhere

Welcome.

Howdy, Bonjour, Nǐ hǎo! So glad you've made it here. Chances are good that you are in a cross-cultural marriage or relationship. Let me start by saying: I get it. These seas are rough, and whether you're smooth sailing or floundering, this space is for you. My soul purpose for building Upside Down Under is to support you and your spouse on your journey. My husband, Kevin, and I recently crossed the line of 15 years of marriage and have navigated many a'storm, traveled in 30+ countries across five continents, and delivered into the world two of the sweetest Cajun Asians you ever will meet. All that to say: I'm here for you and I believe in you! Have a look around and come connect with me on Instagram or Facebook anytime. Here's to the voyage! 🥂

Sydney Berry Ling

Founder & Certified Intercultural Coach

A great place to start

Our Offerings

Cross-Culture Assessment

Discover your worldview mix and cultural preferences to grow as cultural learners and improve communication as a couple.

Coaching Sessions

If you are feeling disconnected or misunderstood in your relationship, we are here to guide you on the path to unity.

The Twenty One Day Reset

Our signature coaching program for intercultural couples designed to take your marriage from Conflict to Connection.

EXCLUSIVE COLLECTION

Choose to See the Good
Every. Single. Day.

WHAT WE DO

Guide you from Conflict to Connection to Calling

Any marriage is incredibly hard. Bring two different cultures and worldviews into the mix, and you're in for some storms. Our founder – Sydney Berry Ling – has navigated her own storms and knows the importance of a wise guide on the voyage. At Upside Down Under, our mission is to equip cross-cultural couples around the world to heal from past trauma and learn the skills necessary to step into the abundant life we are called to.

Couples Like Us

how we work

Our Process

Schedule an Initial Call

You are not alone on your marriage journey. We've weathered storms and would love to come alongside you to strengthen your bond.

Take the Next Step

With offerings ranging from coaching programs to retreats, our primary goal is to see your marriage and family thrive.

Walk in Freedom Together

As you make consistent time for each other and choose to "see the good" daily, you will find yourselves living in true freedom.

Your Marriage Matters

Our heart is to walk alongside cross-cultural couples from conflict to connection to calling. We know what it's like to feel unseen and misunderstood in marriage. It would be an absolute honor to guide you toward your Promised Land life and champion your unique love story.

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